Well Ron has another birthday. He's 49 now. I reminded the girls to wish him a Happy Birthday. One did the other said, "He didn't call me on my birthday. I have other things to do." I see him today. He wants a ride to the doctor's. He and his GF are still together but it's basically over. He isn't in love anymore. I'm still with Fred and we *are* in love. We're taking a road trip this summer. I think we'll be married within a year. Ron took a terrible risk leaving me and now he's paying the piper. He lost out big time and I won the jackpot.